The 3 is a clear step below the VW in image, percieved quality, and design. It's still a nice car and it's a good 3-4 grand cheaper than a comparible gti. For that extra money in the vw, you get a nicer interior, better headlights, more saftey equipent, bigger brakes, 50 or so more horsepower, more gears, better milage, and a fast. I don't think the reliabilty for either is a reason not to buy. Both are probably average in todays market (better than a chevy, worse than a toyota). Get the car you want. Fate will decide if you get a lemon or not, but I like your chances of a good experience with either model.