I think the change from matte grey / black to gloss piano black was part of 2023 model year changes. I’m with you on preferring the matte grey / black trim; IMHO piano black is a magnet for scratches, swirls, dust and fingerprints, but were all individuals with different likes and dislikes and some people will prefer gloss to matte.
As for whether the centre console trim pieces can be changed; I remember reading on one forum that someone has changed the trim (from memory, it may have been
@Massimo 2323 on this forum). I think they did the opposite of gloss black to matte and went from matte to gloss black.