Something to chew on...maybe Jetta....hmmmmm
The only way I would consider a Jetta over a Passat is if you match/compare them by PRICE, not Features/Equipment/Trim.
The Jetta is quite a bit cheaper in a lot of areas. Inferior suspension, inferior brakes, lower build/material quality, BUT with the lower price you can get a lot more goodies on it.
Jetta SEL/SEL Premium vs. Passat SE - Probably not far off.
Jetta SE vs. Passat SE - Get the Passat.
The GLI would make sense but if your wife is anything like mine, she would rather have all the extra Passat features/options over the GLI performance upgrades for the same $25k/$26k.