Once upon a time they weren't making 400, 500+ hp out of a 2 liter 4 banger on a regular basis either. It's neat but makes the motor high strung, it is what it is.
They ECU does have pre ignition detection and safeties though which is nice. Will normally result in a misfire or "cylinder pressure too high" code, and shut off the cylinder to save the motor.
I think it can get a little hard to choose if you're running that 400-500whp hybrid turbo range. Yeah, normal daily commute you really don't need or even want a super cold plug. But what if you happen to get on it a bit for 10+s? You want that colder plug to be 'safe'. An annoying compromise. Just like you you big power GTI guys, you don't need or want drag radials for a daily but otherwise it's just spin city, so what do you do? lol
I don't think E85 is the end all savior either... it doesnt really lower EGT all that much and there are technical papers that discuss how ethanol is more prone to pre ignition than gasoline.
If you fall into that 400-500 hp range dilemma, that I guess one way to go about it would be to try a 2 step colder plug and check up on it every so often... is it fouling up quickly? OK then try 1 step colder etc. At least that's my train of thought as I'm about to try a 2 step colder plug.
My RS7 plugs have always looked really good, is38 and vortex, didnt run them more than 10k but I'm sure I could have easily.
Yes, this is a funny topic that everyone freaks out about. I over think everything so this is normal for me....but not something I"m gonna be losing sleep over.
Sorry, long post. I do that sometimes.