imho, can you deal with a girl that will be getting hit on everynight she works, and showing guy her tits, lap dances, and just in general stripper stuff? if you have gone to a strip joint before you have seen how the guys act, and that how they will act with your girl. there have even been guys who think they "connect" with eh girl and start buying them shit and stalking them.
she may leave stuff at work but when it comes down to it, you will become jealous in the future if you stick with her. every guy is cool about having a stripper at first, then as time passes your attitude changes and you would want her to quit. your friends will find out she is a stripper and might, again MIGHT, *not saying they will, but* try taking advantage of the situation just to say "i say his gf's boobs, and she gave me a lap dance, etc."
if you can deal with that then go for it, but i would pull out now while you can. you even said she is high maintance, most guys dont/cant deal with a high maint. girl. this is just my "girls" side point of view. i wish you the best of luck in it, and i hope everything works out for the best.
